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I know my two coworkers are cheating on their spouses and have proof. I feel guilty for not informing their families.

I know my two coworkers are cheating on their spouses and have proof. I feel guilty for not informing their families.

 
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Are they in California?
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What kind of proof is that?
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You should tell the spouses out of respect just don't let the cheaters know you know.
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What field do you work in?
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your just as guilty as they are funny.
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shut up yo face.
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None of your business you are just jealous you don't have a spare piece of a** on the side.
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Careful. Have you ever heard of 'shooting the messenger'? Unless you are very close friends with the spouses of the two involved, it may be best to MYOB. In most cases, the spouse already has a clue, and is not ready to deal with it. Either way, rarely does the one sharing such news, unless they are a close friend, end up as the hero. For all you know, the couples involved could have an understanding and they both 'cheat' Why do you feel guilty anyway? Is it guilt you wish to rid yourself of, or do you just have a record of meddling in other people's lives under the guise of 'doing the right thing'? What ever you do, make sure your motives are pure and not purely evil.
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LOL
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Their names might begin with B and T
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It is none of your business, just because they are getting some pussies doesn't mean you have to be a party pooper LOL. Shut up and suck it up.
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It might be my business if it is my husband/wife...Just as it would be your business if it was your husband/wife. Thats if your lucky enough to find someone that would want to spend the rest of their life with you...
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This whole post is funny. It has bad karma all over it.
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Yeah it does. Karma-Karma-Karma You can even feel the negativity coming from more than just these three involved.
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You felt it too.?.
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me too. That is really weird guys.
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Oh come on people your all full of shit.
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I hope the ones that are cheating on their spouses get what I did to my wife for cheating on me. Yeah I knew she was cheating so I went out and cheated too. Made sure I got infected with several different STDs. I would sleep with 4 to 5 hookers a night for over 2 years. now she and her lover and his wife have come down with the same infections. What is funny is his wife can't figure it out and neither can the lovers. I know how it happened. lol. Yeah F'em. I was ready to expire when I seen them get a motel room one night when she said she had to work.
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You will always know when someone is cheating on you when you catch them hiding things from you and lying about when they talked to a person last and you know for a fact when they did. CELL PHONE BILLS DON'T LIE !!!
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gee thanks for the tip sherlock holmes..
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"sherlock holmes" Damn that is about as old as my grandpas buckskin rubber
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Is it really your place to intervene? Are their cheaters spouses your friends? Cheating is an appalling act, but telling their spouses could cause them and their children much suffering. If you feel guilty for not telling, imagine the potential outcome from saying something.. If you do decide to say something, make sure the persons involved are mentally stable. You could also consider confronting the cheaters, rather than their family in hopes of a resolution. -esc
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The OP's name is Chris
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The place is in Mercer County, W.V.
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No the place is in Merced County, Ca.
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Maybe it's in Greene County, Ar.
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Damn it could be anywhere and is.
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its everywhere
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If you really want to bring peace. Confront the cheaters. Don't ever under estimate the hurt and anguish it will bring upon the innocent.
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Just my opinion but it is none of your business and you might cause damage that could be repaired otherwise. Who knows how it will turn out but if you tell it may end the relationship, whether good or bad. In time they may confess and have a long, happy healthy relationship. Leave them to their own devices and stay out of it.
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If you do tell them, do it anonymously, been there, done that you do not want that kind of hassle
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Don't be a snitch, they will find out soon enough.
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can i hit it when the cheatin man is done with her ... ?
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More people cheat than you might think. Humans enjoy the variety. Our society though does not allow it and most people can't separate sex from love. But, it is none of your business. All you are going to do is ruin people's lives and your own.
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stay out of it, it is none of your business.
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it's not your place to tell. what you don't kno can't hurt you. id like to SHOOT THE MESSENGER who told in my situation... there was no need to tell...
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you should feel guilty
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i wouldn't
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tell the spouses. via snail mail or anonymous message. Eff the cheaters.
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Wow. Yep I want to live in the woods. You should tell them, anonymously if possible. I do not know why all these people say not to. I wasted an extra 2 years with someone who was cheating, nobody had the balls to say anything. I felt sooo stupid because of it. Everyone else knew! His freinds, my co workers even my landlady (who knew I was paying the rent!) I had an idea but everyone always lied for him. It's bad enough to be cheated on, but to look so stupid after so many years was really what messed my head up. So many people lied to me I can't believe anyone at all anymore. Find a way for the truth to come out! The only people that are saying otherwise are cheating themselves. They need to stop being selfish.
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It's not your place. Don't worry about it, don't feel guilty.
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Lol, looks like there are alot of cheaters here. Narc them out, just be sly about it. Once a cheater, always a cheater......just as well let them cut their losses asap.
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Don't do it. Nobody put you there to be a judge or executioner...let it go.
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yo mind yo f***in business it ain't u so don't care or your other halff***in around on u an u bout to start a victim of cheaters foundation
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Mind your own damn business. I had a neighbor couple that lived on the same Cul-De-Sac as I did. I worked a lot of hours, I had a wife and two kids. I maybe worked 60 hours a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less. Then one day my wife was jacked out of shape pissed off at me and I could not for the life of me understand why. It took me more than a day and I had to take two days of vacation to find out that "I" was spotted driving in my car with another woman....which was total bullshit. Come to find out, that wife of that neighbor couple, told my wife she had seen me in my car with another woman. I went over there and confronted that wife, but mostly talked to the husband and I made it perfectly clear that the wife will keep her mouth shut and mind her own business. It wasn't me she saw, I drove a Toyota Celica. The wife said she saw me in 4 lane traffic going in the opposite direction at a time of the day when I was at work. It was not me, it was somebody else. I'll say it again, YOU NEED TO MIND YOUR OWN DAMN BUSINESS.
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mind your own bussiness. thats how people get shot..
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I think you should keep your mouth shut . You don't know whats going on between your co workers and their spouses thats making them turn to someone else . Maybe you need to get a life of your own and leave other people alone !
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Mind your own business.
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Its none of your business
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Mind your business. You don't know what their marriage is like. This might be the only happiness in their lives.
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