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I need to break up with my gf. I do not know how to start the conversation.

I need to break up with my gf. I do not know how to start the conversation.

 
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...try this,"i had to meet you here today, there's something that i have to say and its going to hurt me but i think its time that you meet another guy..."
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quick, like a bandaid. just spit it out, don't linger on your reasons, then get the hell out of there.
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^ I agree. Break if off clean. There's never any good way to start THAT conversation off.
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Well, first ask her to release your balls from her grip, then just nicely say something like "I really care about you, but I think we should go in different directions now" or something like that. Good luck.
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...honesty is always best. tell her how you hate how she laughs at your thingy every time you drop your fruit of the looms. tell her how you hate it everytime she says "stick it in" and you're already balls deep. tell her how you hate it when she gives you head and talks on the phone with your dick in her mouth at the same time. tell her how you hate it when she farts and holds you under the covers.tell her that your raging hard on isn't cute...tell her that...
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How about, "this is not working well for me any more, and as hard as I try, I doubt it ever will, and I need to move on"
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just argue with her to the point that she says i had enough. it worked for me and my ex-bf.
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O.P. here. This is a sad situation. I have been with her for the last few years. My dad is dying and needs me around. She lives a ways away and between her, college, and my dad, something has to give. I feel guilty for not seeing her and feel guilty when I am with her and away from my dad. She is extremely nice. I have never had an arguement. This will break her heart. It is breaking mine too. I just don't know how to open up to her.
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^Just like that.. Tell her that you have a lot of things going on right now with your father and his health and while you love and care for her you need to make him your prioity right now. If she loves you, she will understand and you all can either work it out and stay together or part amicably as friends.
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O.P. here again. I know what to say. I just don't know the most diplomatic approach to open the conversation, other than, "Uh, well. Um, you know. Well, I guess what I am trying to say is...."
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Just pray that she's not a clingy closet psycho.
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O.P here. Read 4 up. That explains what kind of person she is to me.
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tell her. "look, my father is dying, he needs me i hope you understand but I need to put us on hold 4 rt now" If she dont "get it" dump her ass! ya only got one dad man...
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You seem like a selfish ass to me. Your argument for breaking up with her is weak. Why can't you just explain to her that you want to be there for your dad while he is dieing and that you won't be able to spend as much time with her as you would like? This way, you are giving her the option to either continue the relationship or break it off. If you have other reasons, that you haven't mentioned, for wanting to break up with her, then you need to be a man and just end it.
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You start with "It's not you, it's me".
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Are you kidding me? Your excuse is lame and shallow. Understand the need to take care of your father and all, but shit, you can still have a relationship that will grow from this experience. Don't be to quick. These are the type of times that make a relationship real. Anyone can have a good relationship when things are going good. This will build character for both of you.
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convince her you're a homo..tight jeans and talk with your hands a lot.
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Op here. I have carefully read each of these comments and taken them as constructive criticism;even the ones with the insults. Today I broke it off with her. I said that my dad, school, and she were the only priorities in my life. But something had to give. I could not walk away from my dad or school, and despite the fact that she was also an important priority, our relationship was third among them. She did not like it anymore than myself, but understood how important my dad and school is to me. We wept and said our goodbyes. I hope we remain friends. I also hope that she finds someone who was as good to her as I have been, but with a much less complicated life than mine is at this time. I want to personally thank everyone who posted thoughtful advice. It was indispensable to me more than you will ever know....Kind regards to each of you.
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^Your courage is inspiring in the face of what seems to be a very difficult, no-win scenario.Best of luck. Happiness will find you.
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I think your reasoning for breaking up with her was a weak lie. She is better off without you.
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^Whatever, they're better off not together at this time.
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Tell her with your boyfriend for moral support you faggot, then give her my number so she can have a real man.
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How about "Beat it b****"? That should do the trick!
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wishing you the best, along with your dad. If your relationship with this girl is really meant to be, it will be. Time will tell.
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Begin with auto repairs
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OP HERE: She flipped when I told her. She said that regardless how little we can see each other at this time, love is about sacrifice. She did not want it whatsoever. We decided that we need to work past this together. Thanks to everyone
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you are a FuckTard
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^^^and you are an articulate intellectual
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You know you will back with your boyfriend sucking his dick and taking it up the ass within a week.
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Just tell her the truth, your dad -really- needs you... up his ass with your dick.
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Get a POR.
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Just stop bathing and using the toilet.
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