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My husbands grandmother tells my 4 yr old to call me a bitch,is it wrong of me to keep him from seeing her?She also treats my 4YO better then my 2YO,its unfair.

My husbands grandmother tells my 4 yr old to call me a bitch,is it wrong of me to keep him from seeing her?She also treats my 4YO better then my 2YO,its unfair.

 
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It is definitely not wrong to keep your children away from her.It is wrong of your husband to allow his Grandmother or anyone else to teach your child to be disrespectful to you . I would just keep both children away from her and if she asks why tell her the truth . Good Luck
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Time for Granny to go to the Sunnyside Old Folks Home. Kill the hag.
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Well I think is more wrong if you tell your husband and he doesn't do anything about it. I think its time for your dude to have some balls and confront her.
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I would be super pissed! My kids wouldn't go anywhere near that mental sorry excuse of a grandma! If I told my husband and he did nothing about it, I'd think about just who the heck you married. Those people sound like trash.
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^^I fully agree with the two posts above this one. There is absolutely no way you should allow your kid to go around that woman. If you do, you are no only failing your child as a parent, you are setting yourself up for serious trouble when your kid becomes a teenager and no longer respects you.
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What is your husband doing about this?!?
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Sounds like the grandmother has mental issues...THAT alone should be more than enough to convince you to keep your kids away from her..and it really isn't all that uncommon for one child to be treated differently than another...but it's your job to make sure that it's kept to a minimum and open your mouth and let them know that you are aware of it and won't stand for it...good luck...
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OP here: My husband has told her several times that if she does not stop she will not be around them anymore, and I have told her too. I recently told her no when she asked to pick my 4 year old up, she asked why, and I told her "I guess I am just a b****" I was just worried I would be as low as her by keeping them from her.
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Definitely keep your kids away from this bitter old bag - family or not, no one should be allowed to teach your children hatred and cruelty at such a young age.
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OP again: ty all for the comments. I agree about keeping them away from her. It is not an isolated incident either, about 2 weeks ago she convinced my son to tell everyone that I do not feed him and that I am mean to him, and when my mom asked him about it he said "grandma said that lieing is bad, but that it's ok to lie about mommy" I do not want my children around such a bad influence, and learning bad things. She has tried to ruin my marriage since day one as well. Keeping them from her is better then letting her fill their heads with crap! again ty.
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You need to stay away from Grandma she's not good for the kids, foul mouth and ratty attitude.Maybe you need to take another look at your husband as he allows this crap to go on and disrespect you. He needs to wake up before he's outside lookin in.
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Nope, not wrong at all. You cannot as a parent expose your child to someone who is essentially and abusive person. If this woman cannot practice mutual respect and consideration with you then she does not get to see the kids.
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if your husband won't man up and tell her to shut her hateful, you're going to have to. your children need to see you stand up for yourself. i know you won't leave your husband but if he doesn't demand you be respected how much respect does he have for you. i feel sorry for you mama this has got to suck.
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OP I feel for you. We all want our children to have these great grandparents that spoil them and do all of the things that make grandparents special... The moment that your child said that grandma told him it was ok to lie about Mommy is the last moment that she would spend with them. Remeber
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Wack the cunt on the hip bone.
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^ hahahahahahhahahaahhaahahhah
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way to go b****
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Maybe you are a b****.
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Are you the "baby mamma" to kids by different one night stands?
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~~~you already know the answer. in this case,if you have to ask then you suck as a mom.
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^you suck as a commenter
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hey troll. first of all, I have 2 kids by my husband meaning one guy idiot! so no, im not a "baby mama" with kids from one night stands. and second, I suck as a mom because I asked a simple question? ha. so I guess any mother out there who asks questions must suck as moms? riiiighhhht! anyways, thanks to all the helpful comments, and f*** you very much to the trolls!
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she sounds like a psycho. she will end up damaging them in the long run. she is mentally ill, keep your self and the kids away!
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The first one is always more liked :) :) :)
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Maybe your husband tells her bad things about you.
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Did you ever think, "Maybe I Am A Bitch"
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^^ yeah you are a b****. thanks for pointing that out! and that is for the post above mine! not to the OP.
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When the grandmother tells them to call you a b****, she is just being kind. She could tell them to call you the crack whore that you are.
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Wow, it's such a shame that people like the post above mine are such losers. You don't even know the woman yet she is a crack whore? Let me guess? You are a man right? Did mommy leave you when you were younger to be a crack whore? Or was it maybe your wife? You sound like a loser with women issues, scumbag. And to the OP, all you can do is keep them away from her. I read your replies and it sounds like you are level headed and care about your children, you just want whats best for them Im sure, and if she cannot accept you then just leave her to wallow in her own misery.
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^Wow, just what this sight needs, a wanna be shrink. You f***ing moron, why don't you crawl back into your whole.
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Do you have big titties?
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That's wrong. They should be calling you a "stupid b****".
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It sounds like grandma is pure evil. Don't allow your kids to be exposed to her anymore. They are at the height of their brain development and are soaking up every word spoken to them... It is your job to protect them so don't feel bad for keeping them away from this horrible woman! Also, to the guy that keeps posting "do you have big titties?"... Obviously you have never seen any real ones for yourself, or you wouldn't be posting such juvinille comments.
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I agree, it's not wrong for you to keep your children away from her. Your responsibility is to your children, not granny, not your husband. If he isn't willing to go to bat for you and insist she shape up, you will have to be the strong one. Not only that, but his behavior concerning this is an indication that he isn't being honorable in other ways either. I am sorry honey. I will pray about your situation.
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You should take your grandma hunting, and the "accidentally" shoot her 5 or 6 times, hey it worked for Cheney!
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