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i know you work hard and your tired, but when i spend all day long cooking and cleaning and trying to please you, it would be nice if you acknowledged it....

i know you work hard and your tired, but when i spend all day long cooking and cleaning and trying to please you, it would be nice if you acknowledged it....

 
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he told me you were a shitty cook !
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Join the club chick! I think men aren't aware of our womanly needs and the need for acknowledgement and affection. Most guys forget to do those things. My husband comes home to a beer and his xbox, but when he is hungry or horny He's ready to acknowledge me! Posting on this site might make you feel better or find common ground with other women but it wont help change anything at home. TALK TO HIM when he is vulnerable...Which he is most vulnerable after a blowjob...haha hear me out, Mention it while he is still in the afterglow and he thinks your an angel. LOL
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is this the 50's?
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^^what do you think "trying to please you" means?!?
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AMEN SISTER
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*i just want to add i love my husband very much, i just wish he would pay more attention to me sometimes....
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I bet you use that as an excuse for not having sex!! Better give the dog a bone before he strays off!!
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*^i like sex too, i would never withhold it from him....that would be stupid!
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Shut up b!tc
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I think she's into sodomy.....
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LOL Are you new to marriage? I really don't mind doing everything if my husband is the one to work and pay the bills. I enjoy the old fashioned life style. I love to cook and I'm great with kids but when the woman has to work AND do everything in the home as well.. SCREW THAT! Once she has to work then EVERYTHING gets shared 50/50!
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I read a book on "BURNOUT". This happens when you continually for a long period of time do good things for others...they come to expect it.....and they take you for granted. Eventually most BURNOUT and lose all feelings and stop caring......This more often that not equals divorce.
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Burnout happens in relationships, at work, at church, with anyone who you continually do and do and do for......and go unacknowledged.It's amazing how much just a few nice words, or a card, or an email means when we say thank you and ACKNOWLEDGE a person. It doesn't take much to make a difference, it's all in ones attitude and thankfulness for kindness.
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*^omg can you tell my husband that?!?!?
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You need to have your love tank refueled.
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^*lmao @lovetank *lol*
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What's the deal with all the mean comments on this post? Geesh. Anyways, I don't think men, even good ones, understand how much work there is to be done around the house, and how draining it can really be. I think most married woman wish that their husbands would acknowledge their efforts more often. Have you tried talking to him about this and explaining that you need him to compliment you and what you do? Do you affirm him for all the hard work he does?
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^She is criticizing because he isn't speaking her primary love language which is words of affirmation. Sounds like his primary language is met through her acts of service.
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blah, blah, blah, blah... you are lucky he still comes home to you, instead of nailing that woman at work!
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2^ right idea, but it's a little more involved if you want it to work. remember the goal is to make your woman WANT to be your slut in the bedroom. That's magic.
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^ Right!!! Wow! Woman here....you need to give lectures...so,so, so true!
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