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My BFF of 24 years was diagnosed with cancer 2 months ago. I am secretly mad at her because I found out through a post to everyone on her sister's facebook. :(

My BFF of 24 years was diagnosed with cancer 2 months ago. I am secretly mad at her because I found out through a post to everyone on her sister's facebook. :(

 
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Yeah because this is all about YOU. Your BFF is facing a shortened life. How about being a loving supportive friend instead of a prima-donna about the situation?
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^Cut the OP some slack...that is why he/she is posting on secrets!
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That dog is a hideous little demon.
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You have no idea how difficult it is to tell your loved ones that they may soon be losing you. Perhaps she's angry with her sister for choosing such an inappropriate means of communicating her illness.
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I had cancer. You are freaked out enough without walking around repeating it to everyone(and therefore to yourself over and over) that you are dealing with a killer disease.
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Maybe she wanted to spare your dumb ass some grief!!!!!!! Or maybe she didn't want your pitty just yet!!!!! Think before you speak!!She will tell you when she is ready.
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I didn't say it was a convenient or necessarily kind feeling but it IS how I feel. We have been best friends our ENTIRE life and I know for a fact she told MANY other people before she told me...I just don't understand why I was the last one to find out when I have stood by her through so much. It is just confusing to me...(btw, she is responding excellently to treatment and they say that she is already in remission. :) )
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