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My sister isn't the mother I feel she should be. I love her but I hurt for her kids. Don't know what else to do except keep on loving them.

My sister isn't the mother I feel she should be. I love her but I hurt for her kids. Don't know what else to do except keep on loving them.

 
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Right. Just love them and try to be a stable influence in their lives. I had an absent dad and a mom who did the best she could but really had no idea what to do. My oldest brother was very together and was a huge influence to me. I really did not realize just how much until I became an adult
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Details? My sister doesn't feel I am the mother I should be to my kids yet she is a drunk and had an abortion and when she is with my kids she spoils them and encourages them to be naughty. You know the most important relationship in a childs life is with thier parents and I call BS about outsiders saying that they love these kids when they are constantly sabotaging the parents out of their own deluded ideas about how those kids should be parented. How about asking you sister is she needs help and doing exactly what she asks to help with?
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well, my sister is a horses azz !!
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Well crap...won't let me finish my comment. WTF
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Ok.....I now give up trying to get more than one line posted on here. Tried to give comment #2 my side of the story, but it's only posting one line.
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are her kids adopted, im confused
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I don't drink, I would never teach the kids to do 'naughty' things. She spends more time with her men than with her kids.
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And I have helped her to the point that is almost caused me a divorce. We weren't raised that way
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And thanks to the 1st commenter for you support
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wow, wonder why the administrator is blocking your comments OP? Well thanks for the details and I understand your concern. If your sis is doing drugs and running with men then those kids are neglected. There is more that you can do for those kids but it may mean making things bad for your sis. You may need to contact authorities and offer to take the kids for a while or for ever. We all need to step up for kids in abusive neglectful situations no matter how hard it is. If my sis (the drunk) had kids you better believe I would be all up in her business making sure those kids were safe and cared for. Good luck OP
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The kids don't do without food
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or shelter,
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and they make straight A's in school. And she doesn't physically or mentally abuse them. There's NO WAY I would let those kids go thru anything like that. They just don't get the time
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and attention they deserve. They already spend ALOT of time at my house
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and we all enjoy every minute.
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Yeah my sister is a lousy mom too. So is the douchebag fater, unfortunately. I'm taking my nephew to live with me this fall. Good luck to you.
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