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I want to have a threesome with my boyfriend and another man, but I'm afraid to ask.

I want to have a threesome with my boyfriend and another man, but I'm afraid to ask.

 
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find a way to bring it up in a casual wayand just mention that you're curious about it and would he be willing to let you have another guy there with you two, and in turn allow him to invite another girlsome time with you too. may be more inclined to do so if he feels he will get the same thing in return just a thought
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^ me again, i would think it should be someone you both know and trust, one that would be descreet and know that this would be a one time thing( that would be up to yall)and and felt comfortable with and wouldnt feel awkward afterwards, and def. some one that would be ok with getting tested first for stds and the same for you and your man, always better to be safe then sorry
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Call Meeeeeeeee!!!!
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You need to figure out why you want to do this first. If you've got a good reason that doesn't challenge the emotional bond between you two, then bring it up. Generally, the more fragile the bond, the harder it will be to bring it up.
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I am happy to help you get him to the point he wants it and join in
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Enjoy your relationship with him while you have him to yourself. Once you cross to the other side, eventually your relationship is going to end. If you follow through, don't take the advice of the moron above who suggested that you find someone you two know. People talk. I guarantee whoever else you sleep with in your boyfriend's presence will be puffing his chest and blabbing his mouth to others he knows. So, be prepared.
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Do not do it ever. Remember what I just said. Keep it only in your dreams or your relationship is done for 100%
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Gee you don't think very much about your boyfriend do you? Pig.
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How would you like it if he screws another woman in front of you?? You would hate it and you know it so keep your trap shut. You need help.
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Go for it, whore.
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Jeez enough with the name calling, i agree its a huge mistake unless your both swingers,if your not your gonna be soon if you want it to work.My ex and i tried this years ago,exact reason she's my ex
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^ same here thats why hes my EX also
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my wife and i did the same thing about 10 yrs ago with her friend and it was their idea. its not a good thing to do, i still have to listen to my wife give me hell because i enjoyed kissing her girlfriend too much and i was enjoying myself too much. not a good idea. "warning" DONT DO IT U WILL NEVER BE ABLE TOO HANDLE HIM HAVING SEX WITH ANOTHER WOMEN. U will be bitter and bring it up everytime u argue for years to come.
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1 up. Here is your mistake. The first time she said that you should have put her in her place and reminded her that it was not your idea. Then you should have told her if she ever threw it up in your face again you were leaving. Your wife is a vindictive manipulator.
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I can't stand pushers.
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I am a man and I've been the 3rd person for 17 couples in a 5 year period. Only one couple is still together. Don't do it, it will destroy your relationship. During one interlude, the husband was intentionally hurting his wife while we were having sex and she let it be known to him. I was in the pu**y and he was doing her a** and she cried out that he was hurting her. I knew them both and he was the one who asked me to participate after she told him to choose me. BTW, she was mainly a lesbian. She was able to bring a different woman to their house every single day and he was allowed to have sex with these women as a gift from his wife. But every 4 months, she would want to have a 3-some with her husband and another male. That marriage ended very badly. Don't do it, just keep it a fantasy.
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I'm sure it did end bad and you are of no help for these stupid women are you Mr pig.
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The OP must be a dude
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Don't do it! Been there done that years ago when I was a teenager! My friend's boyfriend wanted to be with me so she let him and he was so cute I did it. Then she was afraid he was going to leave her to be with me and that kind of broke up our friendship. We were stupid kids but all the same.... DON'T DO IT!
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Another loser tramp above this post. You had it coming to you worn out broad.
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OP here, I am a woman. I appreciate all the comments, good and bad. they have really made me think. I am not going to ask my boyfriend to have a threesome. I care too much about him to risk ruining our relationship over this.
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You could always bring toys into the bedroom,your BF toys could make for a good time
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