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 my daughter leaves my grandaughter with me way too much and sometimes i secretly SCREAM that i HATE how she takes advantage of me.

my daughter leaves my grandaughter with me way too much and sometimes i secretly SCREAM that i HATE how she takes advantage of me.

 
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It could be overwhelming for you, but trust me if your daughter behaves like that, your granddaughter is much better with your care than that of her mother.
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Be happy your daughter leaves your granddaughter with you, and is not a psycho like Casey Anthony in Florida. She killed her daughter because she did not have time for her. I wonder if Casey's mom Cindy felt the same way? Bet she would give anything to see her grand daughter Caylee again.
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My sister does that to my mother. It kills me to see my mother taken advantage like that, because she's getting older, tired, and works 60 hour weeks as it is.
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I say Pro choice
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Just proves my life long belief , If you(the parent)cannot take care of your own children,do not have them!
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My sister is like that with my mother. I'm a lil jealous tho, they are 3hrs away so I guess that's too far and my mother was able to see my sisters kids being born and couldn't "make it" to see mine. I make the trip to see them but they don't make the trip to see us.
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As long as you're not screaming at your grand-daughter.
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If she cant afford daycare maybe you should be grateful shes not dumping the baby in Nebraska or abusing the crap out of it because shes so stressed since shes such an imposition asking you to watch the kid so she has a minute to herself. plus at least you get to see your grandbaby a lot of folks dont even get that
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call social services on yourself....problem solved
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You have to set clear boundaries with your daughter. that is true love.
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My two grand daughters only live 35 miles away but they spend weekends with their dad in another town and my daughter gets Thursday and Friday off. Sometimes I miss them so much I fell sick and depressed.Isn't divorce a wonder full thing?Grandpa
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((hugs)) to grandpa.
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Last time I checked the dictionary, there was a word... "no." My ex gf's mother used to say that rather frequently when she was asked to babysit.
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Just tell her. She might not even be aware that you feel this way. Just because you don't want to be saddled with your grand all the time doesn't mean that you don't love her. I love my grandson with everything in me, but when he stays over longer than a week, it's like a vacation when he finally goes home. Then after I've rested, I want him back. I keep him on my own terms. You should do the same or you might end up hating both the grand and your daughter.
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