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I want to have sex with a women. Not because I'm lesbian, but because my boyfriend is not satisfying me and I hope he wouldn't consider that cheating.

I want to have sex with a women. Not because I'm lesbian, but because my boyfriend is not satisfying me and I hope he wouldn't consider that cheating.

 
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why not just show your bf how to satisfy you then? otherwise, you are a lesbo
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I am a lesbian and all I can say is you either are or you aren't. If he is not satisfying you, but you are attracted to him, then you need to teach him how to please you. Men only know their own bodies, they have to learn about ours. It wouldn't be fair to him if you go have sex with a woman just to "get off". Let him know what you like, how you like it, teach him about hard pressure, soft pressure, rythm, if you get stimulated more by your clit or g-spot..or both at the same time. Give him a chance first before you look elsewhere. Besides, you might mess up your relationship with him or you might mess with the woman's emotions if she falls for you. But, if you think you are a lesbian, at least do him the justice of letting him go before you cheat on him.
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From the OP: Thank you guys. I'm very attracted to my bf, and I think women are beautiful but I'm not really sexually attracted to them. He knows how to satisfy me but I take longer than other women he's been with so he get frustrated and ends up not doing it at all. I just need to communicate better. Thanks!!
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Are you all kidding me...sex can just be sex, it doesn't define your orientation. If you feel like making it with a woman do it - it is an experience you'll never forget. You only go around once.
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If your boy friend had sex with another guy, would you consider that cheating?
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Post #4: that was a dumb post! Ummm...It takes attraction! If you are not sexually attracted to a person, you probably won't be having sex with them! I know plenty of straight guys that DO NOT want to have sex with another guy!! Why, because they are not attracted to them. So,sex is not just sex...it's chemistry!!!
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a great sex life in a relationship doesnt just maintain itself by itself! you gotta learn and grow together and be open about your pleasures. we are not mind readers! it takes some effort to keep up a sexual satisfying realationship!! problem is most people are too dam lazy to give so they screw around with another & and so on. instead of taking the time to know eachothers desires and bodies!! BIG mistake to cheat for sex!! what your missing out on really is yourself!! and you wont find yourself while your cheating!! your lose yourself even more!!!!!!!
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now that was gay.
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cheating sex is awesome load....
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To the last poster: Dirt bag. What goes around Comes around. I hope you get yours......Die a lonely death. Karma
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I will take pics & videos of you & another girl doing it, then show them to your BF. if he likes it i will let you know.
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Eating an't cheating so have some cream pie
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If you took a moment and re-read your post, you may just discover how f***ing idiotic and retarded it is! Get a life skank
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