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I'm not attracted to my girlfriend at all anymore. She loves me so much. I want to leave but I'm scared of what might happen if I do.

I'm not attracted to my girlfriend at all anymore. She loves me so much. I want to leave but I'm scared of what might happen if I do.

 
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You should probably be more afraid of what will happen if you don't.
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I kind of feel the same way... strange thing is - it's my fault
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just do it, or else you both will just suffer from a lack of love
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Bud I hung in and wasted 11 yrs of my life with a gal I liked but did not LOVE. Do your self a favor and her for that matter. And for that she probly all ready knows but does not address it
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tear off the bandaid. Its better now then waiting, cause it will only get harder as more time passes.
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Let go so that you both can find mates who will love you better.
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Life's too short to be somewhere you don't want to be.
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The same thing happened to me when I was younger. The girl was nice but nothing she said or did interested me. I hated to tell her but I had to. We were wasting our time together.
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Your afraid of her reaction now. Imagine if you continued on, got married, have children. I too stayed with somone that I didn't truly love for quite a while. It doesn't get any better. Heed everyones' advice. Once you do, you will feel like a big weight has been lifted.
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If you're not attracted to her at all, she may have guessed already how you feel, but is in denial. You'll have to bite the bullet sooner or later. Unless she's unbalanced, she'll get over it in time.
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Sad. It's very hard to find someone who truly loves you. And it's sad that you would give that up over attractiveness.
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are you truly afraid of hurting her, or the pain it will cause You to do so? the real question is do you love her enough to let her go so she can find someone who truly does want to be with her? do you love Yourself enough? you'll survive and so will she. good luck to you both.
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I have been on the receiving end of this and it's so painful. Do both of you a favor and break it off before it goes any longer. She deserves better and so do you.
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Let her go...you're causing unnecessary damage as we speak...
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Go! Now! Years from now you will know you made the right choice. I stayed......
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just tell her in person no over the phone no texting maybe take her out to dinner to tell her so you dont look like such a creep
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Start borrowing money from her and don't pay it back. She'll eventually dump you and you won't have to hurt her feelings. She'll be glad to be rid of you and you'll have some extra cash. Problem solved and everybody's happy.
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So you think it's cool to be miserable and deny her a future with someone that will love her back?
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Your a pussy... quite wasting time with her and dump her.
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Consider that no one will ever love you as much. What will happen to your heart.
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What are you affraid of really?
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I'm really afraid of the dark,
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