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i am married to a man i hate and i only stay because i am fat and think noone else will want/love me and my kids, i only marrie dhim becuz i couldnt do better

i am married to a man i hate and i only stay because i am fat and think noone else will want/love me and my kids, i only marrie dhim becuz i couldnt do better

 
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Grab a tissue...get your fat ass off the PC and hit the gym!
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You're going to have to work on a solution one bit at a time. Start with weight-try eating reasonably and just take walks. Do what you can and make improvements. Try some form of self help (book, counseling or support group) to identify why you let your life become the way it has. No real change will be made until you believe you are worth saving. I lost 50+ pounds in less than one year and left a looooooong relationship because I realized I needed to live on my own, clear my head of old baggage and find out who I really was (sounds cheesy.) It changed my entire life and 3 years later I am happy, more confident and know what I want and need out of life. YOU CAN CHANGE. And you can start today. A life is about a series of choices you've made. Changing that life is as easy as changing the choices you make (eating better, being active) and the reasons you make them (self esteem, the belief you are worth more than this.) Good luck. There is hope. It's easier than you think.
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I was in the same situation myself..low self esteem and extremly over weight. I was married to an abusive older man. I had gastric bypass exercised and came to realize I deserved better as a person. I divorced him with in a year I have met a kind gentle man who adores me. And most important is so great with my child. You can do better! Just beleive in yourself.You deserve to be happy! Good luck!
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the problem is not being fat, it is not loving yourself enough to know you deserve happiness. there are people who are attracted to all types of body styles. Check out NAFTA or some other place like that. You need confidence, you deserve happiness. Don't get hung up on the need for a man. You can take care of yourself.
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fat people are getting laid (& married) in this country all time. also, being alone and happy beats a crappy relationship anytime.
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Learn to spell you fat f***. "Noone" is not a word!
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HAVE ANOTHER CANDY BAR FATSO! MFD!
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If you're white, and aren't racist, a black man will take you in. And treat you like a queen, a big happy lovey queen.
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You do realize that this is a horrible situation and that you are bringing the both of you down ALOT, right? Being alone is alot better than being with someone you claim to hate. If you divorce him, you'll at least give yourself a good flying chance of finding someone else for you. Your now husband and you will realize the true situation your in and possible gain some kind of respect for each other.
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Stay for the kids! Once their gone..DUMP his ass.
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Wow. You sound like my wife...leave him.
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sorry for u and him. you have the ablitiy to make him better
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This is sad. I'm female. I enjoy larger people. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Also, I don't mind being the trophy wife. I'd enjoy it. I'd even date the "older Gentleman"!!!!!!!!! MmMmmm!
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U are a Cun t
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Hello Jenny McClean Pensacola airport, Delta ticket counter. Thank you for sucking my cock and letting me f*** you in the over nighters. Your husband needs to go get tested along with all of our coworkers that you f***.lmfao. muahahahaha sorry Earl your wife is a skank but i love f***in her.
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