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Ten Years two kids one that is two and the other that is six months. Recently found out that the second isn't mine, but HE WILL ALWAYS BE.

Ten Years two kids one that is two and the other that is six months. Recently found out that the second isn't mine, but HE WILL ALWAYS BE.

 
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You dont have to be a blood parent in order to be a good parent. That child needs a father in their life, and it sounds to me like you will make a pretty good dad.
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Sounds like the definition of a parent. You made him yours. Bless you
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I don't know if I could do that and stay married.
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You so OWN! Your family is lucky to have you! Bless you!
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Wow, you're so much better man than most. You must really love that child...and they are VERY fortunate.
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Even though you love him as your own it might be a good thing to make the biological father pay support. You are a great person by the way. You remind me of my stepdad.
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To those who would have just taken off, why is a situation like this about you and not the kids, like the OP? I admire all loyal fathers, step fathers, adoptive dads, all of you. The world is a better place for your service to your children, and the rest of us. I would be proud to know you. Good luck.
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I'm a step-dad and adoptive dad with no biological kids. I love my kids to death, and wouldn't have it any other way. My oldest adopted daughter just made me a grandfather, and I couldn't be happier (I'm only 36, so I'll have lots of energy to spoil my granddaughter, her mom is 21). However, this is different. I wasn't cheated on, and the kids (except for the adopted ones) were there when I got there, so no surprises. I could easily see myself taking care of the kid, but I am not certain that I could continue in a relationships with a woman that would attempt to deceive me like that, even if she came clean later. That's just way too heavy. It's not the baby's fault, so there would be no reason for me to resent the baby. But I sure as hell would be mad at the "supposed" mom (no real woman worth anything would ever have an outside child while she was with her man). No woman like that deserves any sympathy or support. Only ridicule and condemnation. If the biological father isn't in the picture, I would suggest petitioning to adopt the child, then get rid of the mother. Being a single dad has its advantages.
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i love u and men like u. raise him well, so he can learn and be like u...for that, u will always be blessed. thank u
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the mother does not deserve your loyalty
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I think this is a re-hash. I think I had seen this one a long time before.
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Pray for help!
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Jusy about any man can father a child. It takes a REAL man to be a dad.
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the same thing happened to me 18 yrs. ago. i won temporary custody,when the blood test proved she wasn't mine the judge ordered i give her back to her mother. when i did she gave her to her mom and dad to raise. broke my heart. today we stay in touch! we both hate my ex for what she did...that b****!!
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A-men Bro GOD blesses us with people like you thanks God Aloha and Mahalo
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ur a good man...it's not the childs fault... and that child deserves the best...my heart goes out to you for doing the right thing. :)
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You are a GOOD man.
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I didn't know until I was 30 that my dad wasn't my father. He stayed with my mother and I don't know how he did it. Thank you dad!
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Your a good man! I don't know you but I would be proud to have. Love him, love them both and enjoy every moment.
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after the divorce dna will save hundreds a month
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MAN NEVER STANDS SO TALL AS WHEN HE STOOPS TO HELP A CHILD. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR SONS.
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if you were smart you would go ahead and make the real dna father start paying child support know to save yourself future issues
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I understand where u come from I am doing the same found out mine wasn't mine after about 2yrs that was 13 yes ago and i still love him as much asi did that frist time I held him
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you are a truely good selfless person
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My greatest respect for you.Good luck.
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Same here bro. We have four kids together, the youngest is not mine biologically, I've known since she told me she was pregnant. He's now three and I can't even imagine not having him around. He's more attached to me than the older three. The Bible says love covers a multitude of sins. He is your son, no question about it.
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Divorce the mother, take the child, and sue her f***buddy for child support. Don't be a coward.
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You're a tool
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Hahahahahahahababababababa...pfftt, negro baby shoulda been a clue, dumbass honky.
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