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I broke up with my big, built, black boyfriend last week - whom I'm still 100% in love with. 
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<br/>I can't tell my family that I'm Heartbroken Because not only are they RACIST... they don't know, or will accept, that I'm gay

I broke up with my big, built, black boyfriend last week - whom I'm still 100% in love with.

I can't tell my family that I'm Heartbroken Because not only are they RACIST... they don't know, or will accept, that I'm gay

 
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LOL...... That is beautiful!!! So true.. Size.. doesn't matter...lol....
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It takes two to break up. If you broke up with him and he let it happen, he must have wanted to move on and you gave him the chance. If he didn't want to lose you, he would have stayed and fought for the relationship.
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you can live for your family or you can live for yourself. let them live their own lives and you be Happy. however, accepting Yourself must come first. good luck (& pity the tards above who clearly know Nothing of Love, but only Judgment, Hostility, and a complete Lack of true Christianity.)
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Hey.. Jesus Basher!!! Yah.. you with the bitter attitude because you think there is nothing after life... If you would take the time to re-read the op.. you'll find that she's a he.. Now don't you feel like a big jesus hating jack ass???
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dear above commenter...I think the OP is a man...hence the "i'm gay" part at the end.
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I was married to a woman for 13 years until the gay in me couldn't stay away. My parents never asked and found out when they met my partner later. We don't talk about it - but hell they treat me better now than when I was married. Being racist may be a problem with them, but being against you because you're gay probably won't be as big a deal as you think it is. Parents love their children - usually regardless of their decisions.
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Racism has nothing to do with being gay yet you write as if it did. So sorry to hear...
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Hey Jesus Basher.. You're dumber than I thought. The poster below me wasn't talking to me.. he was talking to everybody who hadn't figured it out yet.. I figured it out just a tad before him, hence why my post is above his.. You have a hard time reading and comprehending.. It's no wonder you never picked up a bible.
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I'm pretty sure the Secret Giver realizes that Racism and being Gay have nothing to do with each other. Maybe if you actually read the secret, before commenting you would have realized that the 'Family' doesn't agree with homosexuals OR people of different making the challenge harder. He's upset because he broke up with the person he LOVES. He seems to be more upset because he can't talk about it, especially his family, because they would outcast him... just sayin'
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I would stay with him. If you lose him because of your family, you'll always regret it.
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gayness doesn't exist. It's called sexual deviance. Please hang yourself.
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Your career in politics is over.
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honestly, you need to race back to him and tell him how much you love him. i'm not gay, so i can't speak about the homophobia element of your family, but 3/4 of my family are racist. i was in a long relationship with a man who was biracial. we were madly in love. he never met most of my family. we left a restaurant one day because one of my relatives was there. now he's dead and i wished i had the courage to stay and not give a damn what they thought. i'm still so ashamed of that day, although he wanted to avoid the drama as much as i did. i would give up every one of them if that meant i could spend one more day with him. don't let other people dictate who you share your love with.
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Whew....your family doesn't have to be racist to be twisted out of shape by that one...
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Nobody is bashing Jesus, you stupid idiot. Jesus has nothing to do with your hatred toward gay people. Stop using Jesus in the name of hate, if you don't like homosexual people stop going to gay bars and sucking cocks. I know plenty of hypocrites a** **** who preach against gay but going to gay prostitutes for sex and drugs.
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I would rather have a gay child than a child involved with blacks.
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^ Right on the money! And many gays have children, so grandchildren are still in the mix! :)
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^ I'm with the preceding two comments!
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