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I've been with my BF 14 yrs, haven't had sex in 3 yrs, don't have the heart to say he sucks at it, that's why I'm not interested, I blame my Fibromyalgia pain!

I've been with my BF 14 yrs, haven't had sex in 3 yrs, don't have the heart to say he sucks at it, that's why I'm not interested, I blame my Fibromyalgia pain!

 
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I have read your post three times now and there are a couple of things that really bother me. 1. You are contradicting yourself by saying you are not interested in sex because your boyfriend sucks but then also you blame it on fibromylagia. Which is it? 2. The "I am not lazy. I have fibromyalgia" sign is you feeling sorry for yourself. No, you aren't lazy, you are depressed. Go to bed at a decent hour, get up in the morning, take a shower and get going for the day. The more you do the better you will feel. Sitting on the couch or at the computer all day long only makes it worse and then you start feeling sorry for yourself because you are in so much pain.
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I hated having sex with my husband cuz he was also terrible at it and a very selfish lover. Although, I had never lost interest, just had no interest in him. I feel for your suffering.
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Did I just renovate your bathroom? If so, we should hook up. (your mom told me you had fibromylagia)(and I dont suck at sex!) BTW first poster has a good point.
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Just another whiny b**** looking for a free ride. Lying to the guy for 3 years, should be proud of yourself!
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My mother also has Fibromyalgia. Though, she works two jobs and has a very active sex life. People really shouldn't make excuses for the characteristics they exhibit of which they aren't proud.
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I have FMS also. It could be your meds that are giving you the big turn off. I finally got off of all the junk and just deal with it.
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fibromyalgia is just some made up word for hypercondriacs
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Find him another wife to have sex with and then he can be a polygamist and keep you both.. takes the pressure off of you.
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every person i've ever known that claimed to have fibromyalgia always whined about it constantly. oohhhh my fibro is sooo bad today. it makes me want to smack them. seriously. like a really hard smack right across the face.
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i'm sure that will be his excuse too when he cheats on you.
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So you have a relationship but you don't want to put any effort in it at all? You're making your man pretty damn miserable, I suspect. You don't have sex with him for 3 years and somewhere in the back of his mind he must be wondering why. If he sucks in bed it's not just HIS problem, it's both your problem because YOU don't communicate and teach him what you like and dislike. Grow the f*** up and talk to him, he's not telepathic.
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