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Im gay, not out. A friend and I messed around a few times drunk(he came on to me. know his acting like nothing happend. I cant stop thinking of him. I hate him.

Im gay, not out. A friend and I messed around a few times drunk(he came on to me. know his acting like nothing happend. I cant stop thinking of him. I hate him.

 
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Hate and love have a fine line in between them. You a hurt and that is understandable, but since u aren't 'out' do u think that maybe this guy that came onto u might be embarrassed by his actions?
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Talk to him. (sober) The unknown of what he is thinking can be worse self-torment than knowing what is on his mind. Who knows? He might be thinking about you exactly what your post says about him. Don't pay attention to the ingnorance on here. Female--over 30
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Been there. Sorry bout the luck. It's a shitty place to be in. I'm sure it's tearing you up. I'm sorry. I honestly feel your pain, and there is nothing left to say other than - I'm sorry for you. You'll do what you have to -ie; talk to him/keep it locked up. Best of luck.
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Same thing happened to me not too long ago. I'm gay(and out), but he's "straight." We were both drunk, he proceeds to tell me how much he likes me, then starts making out with me. It's hard to ignore something like that, but at the same time you don't want to make a big deal of the situation. I say you should try talking to your friend, but maybe not talk about those situations until the right moment comes up. I'd also suggest not hating him, as it will only hurt you more in the end. Hope this works out well for you, your friend is probably just not as comfortable with himself as you are, so he's having a difficult time dealing with the situation as well.
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yea me too sux like a b**** lol
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Gay sex is like straight sex in that there's time and place and person for everything. When you're drinking or drugging, you do dumb things with inappropriate people. Many "straight" (Ususally married) men have come on to me when they are drinking, and then the next day they pop up with, "Wow, was I drunk last night", or they pretend nothing happened.
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