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My best friend told me he was in love with me while I pretended to be asleep. I'm in love with him too, but I don't want to ruin his current 4yr relationship.

My best friend told me he was in love with me while I pretended to be asleep. I'm in love with him too, but I don't want to ruin his current 4yr relationship.

 
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If he's in love with you then its only a sham anyway. What are you doing? Go tell him!
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Let him know you 'had this dream' to see if he will fess up. He needs to let the gf of 4 years off the hook.
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You can't ruin a relationship based on a lie. If he's telling you he loves you while you sleep, he's afraid. He will be unhappy, in time, with the 4 year relationship he has now if you do not speak up. You're sensitive and kind to not want to hurt anyone but sometimes it's inevitable and for the best. Love is.
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Life will be unhappy if your not with the ones you love
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If you love him back tell him. Don't let the one you truly love get away, especially if he feels the same. I did, and it hurts everyday.
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If you really love him, tell him. If he really does love you and you two want to be together, wait until he breaks up with the other girl.
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I had a similar situation, Only, I ended up marrying my best friend because I told him I loved him as well. We are divorcing b/c we got married too young and it didnt work, but we are still best friends and i think one day we will reunite, being best friends brings fourth such an irreplaceable love.
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Don't be a fool and lose your chace. Its good to be friends first.
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Listen to everyone above!
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..so your bangin' him and he is in a 4 year old relationship and tells you he he loves you while your pretending to be asleep....and your concerned YOUR going to ruin his 4 year relationship??? I got news for ya, it aint what your doing sista...it's what he's doing!!
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Grab him while you can. Apparently he feels the same way bout you, so that 4 year relationship that he is in is totally meaningless.Get him now.. or you will regret it. =)
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hahahaha 2 up called you on it! You're already sleeping with him!
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I am so grateful that I have a wonderful man in my life and have for over a year. He loves me and my children unconditionally... before I finally met him I had a wonderful man that was my best friend and loved me andmy children as well, I never told him how I felt ... 4 months ago he shot and killed himself. I regret not taking a chance and telling him how I felt
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r u insane? let it go!!!!!
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