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Im in love with a married man. I didnt know he was married at 1st,now its so hard to walk away. He told me he loves me too but doubt it. I want to tell but cant

Im in love with a married man. I didnt know he was married at 1st,now its so hard to walk away. He told me he loves me too but doubt it. I want to tell but cant

 
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If he really loved you, he'd leave his wife and he wouldn't have lied to you. He is only using you, you have to cut all ties and walk away. Sadly, I know this from personal experience, my ex was a genius at lying and charming to get whatever he wanted.
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Falling out of love with someone bad/wrong/unavailable is a 1-step process....LOVE AND HONOR YOURSELF! When you start doing that, the trash and bullshit just fall away.
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He doesn't love you - he only wants to have sex with you. I promise.
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He will never leave her, and "if" he did could you ever trust him knowing he cheated on her? He'd then cheat on you..
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Once a cheater, always a cheater!
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Will power is the only thing that will save you. There is no other way. He will make it hard too with love talk and promises. You must walk away. One other possibility - hypnosis. Good luck my sister!
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Give yourself permission to have a better guy in your life. Why live an illusion? You will regret all the time you long for him when you meet the right one.
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Been there done that ...it's not worth your time...find someone else...someone that only wants you...or you may wait for something that will never happen...like i am
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I can help you make them hate you. Dover
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i know how you feel. i too am in love with a married man. it sucks and i wish i could just stop loving him but i tried and cant.
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Run as far away from this guy as you can. He's a sad, pathetic human being who is just using you. You could do so much better.
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As a married man let me tell you this. He knew he was married when he hooked up with you. how can you love a pig like that? Dump him. He is haveing good sex from you and a good family life at home. He will never leave his family for you. In the end he WILL dump you and make you the blame for his failure.
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Its not so black and white these days. Women used to be nice, not skanky. I too am seeing a married man. His wife f@*cked his best friend 3 years ago, and tells him she will leave and not acknowledge their children if he divorces her. He came from a broken home and is preying on his weakness. He is a good man, in a bad situation. I know it sucks. I am a hypocrit, and never ever thought I would be in this position. Now I know why poeple say wait til u are in the situation before you judge too harshly. My own words of hate haunt me. I really did not know he wasn't divorced. Turns out they are seperated but living together? He can't afford to pay for her apt, and why should he? She is the one that F*-ED up.
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I told him not to talk to me anymore.. I hope Im strong enough to end it for good. We have stopped for a while more than once.. But its always the same he tells me hes sad and misses me and Im weak and pathetic.. I pray for strength.. I went from an abusive marriage to this.. I hope for a brighter tomorrow
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I know exactly how you feel, I'm in a similar boat. I didn't know he was married at first either. And I want to keep him in my life - I don't want to marry him, knowing he's willing to cheat, but I don't want to let him go...
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Im married and so is the guy Im sleeping with I love my husband but still feel the need to be in the company of a different male from time to time maybe thats how this man feels
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Oh yeah...he loves you. He loves you so much, he's going to leave his wife? Didn't think so. He don't love you. He's getting his cake and eating it too. WAKE UP!
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