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...The one I am set to marry, is not the one I love...

...The one I am set to marry, is not the one I love...

 
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Don't do it you'll feel regrets forever and eventually loath the person and resentment, stop it now, right now...
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You owe it to your fiance to speak up now or forever hold your peace. It's not too late. I called off my wedding to go back to what I thought was true love. Didn't work out and I got my fiance back.....definately got lucky because we can go through life without second-guessing. We've been married 13 years and have 2 great kids. One of the most difficult things I've ever done but I'm glad I did it. Best of luck to you!!
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Don't do it! Take it from a girl who knows. Who cares about the money, or the guests? Your happiness is the most important thing. And it would be so, so wrong to do to him. And your (potential) children...
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If I had the courage of my own convictions the first time I would have saved a lot of heartache be true to yourself!
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do not go forward
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dont do it
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Then don't marry. SO SIMPLE!!!!
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Why do people do these things/ dont do it...its not fair to you or the other person
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As Ben Franklin said, "If there's marriage without love, there will be love without marriage." - Do it - then brace yourself for the torment of finding the love of your life, and not being able to have them. (don't ask how I know this.)
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trust your intuition -- only you has any chance of knowing, but you have to listen
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and i cant even find a husband thats craziness
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The love of my life dumped me young, she later went and married another and was married for 14 years. She called me out of the blue after 25 years apart. We are now together and both are so happy we would surely die without the other. We can't have kids now due to our age - wasted time is something you will never get back and always regret. Do not do this.
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Idiot.
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so don't marry her.
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I did that too and was stuck for 14 yrs. That b**** owns me now and my house and money. At least when we were married I could see her spending my money
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So just like everyone else has said. DON'T DO IT. It doesn't matter if you have kids. Do you know its worse to grow up in a home with parents that don't love each other? If you are scared of hurting the other person, in the long run it may kill them to find out what you really thought
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If you can't be true to yourself,how can you bt true to everyone else. DON'T
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What Part of STOP IN THE NAME OF LOVE do you not understand?
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That's not the right attitude to have going into a marriage...just sayin'
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