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My dad was a drunk and everyone in my family covered up for him.  Now he's old and we have to take care of him and I don't want to....

My dad was a drunk and everyone in my family covered up for him. Now he's old and we have to take care of him and I don't want to....

 
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some dont deserve it
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You don't want to? So what! Your dad was a drunk. You think you are baggage free? Someone will have to take care of you when your old, remember that.
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AMEN!
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Your dad was selfish and self absorbed... guess what, you can be just like him and STILL not be a drunk. Help your dad when you can but take care of yourself FIRST. Forgive him.
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did your dad run around naked
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than dont take care of him its not that hard
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Betrayal is betray no matter how anyone might try to excuse it. Walk away, you owe neither him nor them anything.
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You don't have to take care of him.My father left me when I was 9. He 'found' me again when I was 41. Turns out he has cancer and wanted to 'mend' our relationship before it is too late. I told him it was too late like 30 years ago.
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You all needJesusand Jesusand moreJesus
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I feel your pain.
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don't
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Jesus is the only thing that kept me alive long enough to be able to make sure my dad is taken care of. If he came back to you in the end then I would bet he never stopped thinking about you.The inability to forgive only hurts ourselves!
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then dont, and dont feel guilty, as we all know...guilt sucks
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FUK HIM, just don't do it, let the lazy drunken, selfish basterd take care of himself, like he should have all of his life.
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"You don't want to? So what! Your dad was a drunk. You think you are baggage free? Someone will have to take care of you when your old, remember that."...HEY FUCK YOU!! REMEMBER THAT!!!
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my dad beat me till i bled, my dad made me be scared all day and night, my dad would tell me the time and date i would get a beating, i hated him for so many years, now i take care of him and love him. He made me the person that i am.
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FUCK HIM LET HIM ROT
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