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My GF of 2 years once said to me "I cant wait to get married and just let myself go!" her mother is obese & that statement stuck in my till the day we broke up.

My GF of 2 years once said to me "I cant wait to get married and just let myself go!" her mother is obese & that statement stuck in my till the day we broke up.

 
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Good for you! A woman with that outlook toward life will let herself go in EVERY area, not just weight. You got out just in time.
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who PLANS on becoming fat? there is something seriously wrong with that.
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Thats the reason so many marriages fail because people are no longer trying to capture a mate . They either stop trying to look their best or the making love gets left out in the cold . Actually I think if you were so shallow as to only fear her looks changing then she is lucky you got out.
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Well in case you didn't know...image changes. It's kinda like buying a house for it's paint job....DUMB.
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You will likely be lonely or unsatisfied.
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Your supposed to marry someone for the person they are on the inside, not for how they look on the outside. People age, life happens. If you need someone who always looks good on the outside, the odds are good you are an insecure man.
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At least she is honest, unlike most of them.
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Smart move! A woman like this can't love herself, so how is she supposed to love you? There are so many health problems associated with obesity, it's more than image. To the idiot who used a house analogy, it would be like the seller saying "I can't wait to sell you this house, then I can take the vinyl siding off and show you how rotten the wood is underneath." Don't listen to these fat women, they are only talking down about you because they have poor self-esteem. Letting yourself go is f***ing DUMB. Get a smart girl who challenges you to better yourself.
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^ 5 up - the post above is correct - being obese is NOT comparable to a "paint job". A paint job does not affect the underlying structure. A fat body impacts everything, and is horribly unhealthy. Sure, image changes, but being fat is not an "image". Obesity is a complete transformation of the person's body, mentality, and psychology.
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The transformation you speak of is tied into IMAGE. Also about the paint job, it basically saying you are only buying the house for the paint job,meaning you only want it cuz it's beautiful on the outside. People don't buy houses like that, people don't marry people you are not fully commited to, commited unconditionally. People have forgotten what Unconditional love is. For better or worse. In the ugly times and good. I feel bad for anyone who can't love someone through thier sickness. If your trophy wife gets in a car accident and gets burns all over her body or has no legs, will you still love her? I bet you won't be attracted to her anymore though? Whats the f***ing point here?????? Stay lonely and judgemental. Or you can Love someone.
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thats what mine did. i told her i want out!
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What guy hasn't noticed what his girlfriend's mom looks like? I've been like, "Uh-oh, check those wrinkles and fat ass out!"...
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I think your girlfriend said that to get rid of you. It doesn't sound all that smart if she didn't realize it would scare you out of the whole marriage idea. I'm pretty sure she was looking for the easy way out... you know...the way men do.
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Uhm, just a thought, but is it POSSIBLE that she was joking?
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I think that she was joking.. Although my ex-wife seriously told me that she didn't have to try anymore right after we were married and at least she was being honest
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Being chunky and having a fat rashy, sweaty, stinky vajayjay are two different things
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Good Call! I always try to meet a woman's family and parents as soon as possible because it's a look into the future.....!
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