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I tell everyone that i dont want to ruin my body having children and plan to adopt. Truth is I've been trying for years and ust cant concieve. It kills me.

I tell everyone that i dont want to ruin my body having children and plan to adopt. Truth is I've been trying for years and ust cant concieve. It kills me.

 
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You need to find a healthier way to tell people. Just tell them the truth - that will shut up the nosy busybodies. We struggled with the same thing and got sick of people asking, "When are you going to have a baby?" We wanted to say - "Whenever we CAN, b****!"
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you may be estrogen dominant, have you had your progesterone levels checked? low progesterone can cause infertility (you won't ovulate and may have a short luteal phase)...your doctor's won't necessarily test you for this (if you have got tested) and if they do it's with one blood sample which does not measure full hormone levels. saliva testing is most accurate and 7-11 collection tubes are recommended over a 22-35 day cycle. this will pinpoint when you ovulate more accurately than taking your temperature. also keep in mind that USP bio-identical hormone therapy is the only HRT that is safe to use! please contact a naturopath for more information, if you have tried for that long it's time for a different, NATURAL approach!!!! i have lost one baby already because my doctor's claimed my low progesterone number was because i was miscarrying. i had it tested afterward (by my acupuncturist) when i wasn't pregnant and it was still too low to carry a baby through the first trimester. my regular doctor wouldn't test me or prescribe progesterone for me until i have had 3 or more miscarriages.....like it's no big deal to have your future children die or something :( after taking an adrenal/estrogen/progesterone saliva panel i now know that i have a hormone imbalance and am undergoing treatment. just don't try treating it without testing first, hormones are nothing to screw around with!it's up to you to advocate for your health, good luck!!!
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Sorry. My mother used to say, we can't always get everything we want. Accept the situation and be happy.
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^be happy about not ever having a child to hold in your arms? unless you know what's it's like to want a child and for it to be a struggle don't tell someone to be HAPPY about it when it doesn't work out. you make me sick!
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there are many babies out there that don't have ANYONE to hold them and love them. If it continues and you can't have your own, try adoption!! Please!!
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I too had problems with miscarries and had to have the pregestrone shot and after many miscarries, I finally had a baby girl, who is now 6 years old and perfect.
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^that's wonderful!
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I don't understand why people don't want to adopt? If I could afford to I would. I would rather than have my own. So many people already here that deserve a chance!
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^because adoption is EXPENSIVE and unless you are white, married, and you own a home the chances of getting thru a screening is slim to none......it's sad but true!!! i think adoption is wonderful, but the system is broken :(
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Both my wife and I are adopted. It's a great thing to do so please know you are doing something very special!
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Well, my husband wasn't suppose to able to produce children, according to his doctor... we know have a beautiful son :) anything's possible. but no one will hold it against you if you decide to adopt. adoption is a wonderful thing. it gives children the chance to have more than they had in their original homes. nothing wrong with that
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Tell him to wear boxers... tighty whiteys killed my sperm.
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Same situation here, life has this way of working, people that want babies can't have them and people that don't want them do have them, its a cruel joke. Don't loose faith, I find when you least expect something it happens. Have patience and be as stress free as possible it will be worth it in the end.
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