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I've always wished that I had a different mother. My mother wasn't the best mother at all.

I've always wished that I had a different mother. My mother wasn't the best mother at all.

 
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Yet she had you and without her you wouldn't be here. Without her waking up at 3 in the morning to feed you you would be dead. Maybe she wasn't great but she was there for you when you couldn't even open your eyes. Have some respect.
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Maybe you were the one that wasn't the best.
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What if I told you that before you were born, you chose your mom so that she could teach you lessons you needed to learn in this life? What if she agreed to play the role of "less than best mom" so that you could evolve spiritually in some way? You can continue to wish this as long as you like but in the end as long as you keep judging and blaming her it is YOU who will remain stuck in your life. My mother played a horrible role for me. She tried to kill me several times among other things, but I forgive her and I honor the role she played. I am a better person for all the pain she gave me. I know how to love, to learn, to forgive and have empathy for others. Maybe she WAS the best mom for you?
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She didn't get to pick you either :/
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You get 2 chances at a parent/child relationship. Once when you're a child and Once when you're an adult. Make the best out of being a parent when that day comes, if you choose that route. My mom is average at best and everyday I strive to be the best mom to my kids - that was my moms gift to me (the example of how NOT to be). Good luck. :o)
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The Moms are always greener on the other side of the fence. You've got a Mom. Your not an orphan. She didn't pick you either. You have learned good things from your Mom. You just don't know it yet because you haven't yet experienced the dark side. Love your mother. She nourished you as an infant and labored to expell you from her body.
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Was she bad simply because she made you wear that silly elephant nose? Because I think it's cute.
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My mother said she wished we (her kids) were never born. That's pretty hard to forget, even as an adult. I granted her wish ....to her, I am dead.
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^ She said, "Thanks! I can live again without the cops banging on my door!"
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the glass is half empty in your case
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TO THE 3RD POSTER.BULLSHIT.TELL ME WHY KIDS WUD CHOSE TO LIVE WITH A MOTHER THAT ABUSES THEM.HEY I WILL EVEN INCLUDE MY EMAIL armand119@yahoo.com. SO IF YOU WANT TO COMMENT DIRECTLY.I HAVE LIVED WITH HER HATE FOR OVER 50YRS.ALL I CAN SAY IS SORRY SHE OUT LIVED MY FATHER.AND IS STILL ALIVE TO HATE MORE.
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I loved my mom but she made my life very hard in many ways. I did not have a quality relationship with a woman until mom passed away.
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