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my husband doesnt last longer than 4 or 5 minutes having sex and he cant do it rough or it's over faster. im tired of it!

my husband doesnt last longer than 4 or 5 minutes having sex and he cant do it rough or it's over faster. im tired of it!

 
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So, what you are saying is, sex is the only thing that matters to you.
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^do dumbAss she's saying she is sexually frustrated!
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I don't care what anybody says. Sex is important. No it's not the only thing but it's enough to reconsider.
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So get him some help aSsHoLe!
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Insist that he wears a condom to make him last longer.
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And you have a right to be. Maybe it's time to find a BF or teach your hubby to think of baseball and cars instead of your hot puss while he is pumping. At least one good thing, you must have something nice that really turns him on...some women can't even get their hubbys to have sex, let alone get a hard on.
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2^ He should get his own help and please his woman. She could get him to hand f*** her with a dildo. Either she'll get a good lay, or he'll figure out a way to last longer. All he has to do is Google techniques. There's no reason she can't be pleased as well. There are too many options available.
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^ Oops, it's 3^ now.
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^Ha, so because he wants some sex she just just lay there and be a free 5 minute f*** doll? Sex goes two ways. Give a lot, get a lot. He has a wife who wants sex from him, and he won't make any real attempt to please her. 5 minutes with a woman barely gets her wet. To the poster, try to pull his balls back down before he cums. It may help extend his performance time a bit.
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good luck with all that...
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thanks for all the tips! just so everyone knows- i love sex with him, i just wish it would last a little longer... condoms dont help :( frequent sex doesnt help either. we f*k every day, its still over quick. its flattering but come on... i want to get off too!!!!!!
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do you lcommunicate-- what about seeking help from a dr. or trying different techniques. I know sex is important but a great relationship is too.
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easy fix: try a lube with lidocain, its a topical anesthetic.longer better fix: there exists an excercise to beat all exercises. everytime he is about to have an orgasm, stop and squeeze the head of his dick and count to thiry, around a month or so of this and he will start to last longer. masturbation trains us to come as quickly as possible, you need to retrain his gizmo.
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just let him come and make do you again. i bet he can go longer after he gets his first nut off.
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Get yourself a battery operated vibrating friend. Get him to start you off with that. Include him, but show him where the hot spots are. If it works, then finish the last 5 minutes together.Easy Peasy.
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I have the opposite problem. I can't get off with a woman- just my hand. I last for EVER with my woman.
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And yet you married him. So who's really the failure here?
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response to 4^ -- i always forewarn women that they gotta let me get the first one out of the way and then i'm good to go. i have no delusions of grandeur ... i'm gonna come in like 2-5 minutes the first time ... but after that, i'm gonna devastate my woman.
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does he go down on you or anything? foreplay? sex toys?
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I can't beleive I have to tell you this. You have to go down on him first, let him cum, and then the next boner will last a long time. Same reason guys mastrubate before a date, so they don't cream thier pants when making out with a new hottie.
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After 32 years of marriage, we started using a vibrator, with some ky jelly, and OMG I explode when I come!
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I was using vibrators on girls in my early 20's. While they gave me head, of course.
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I am having the opposite problem and it sucks just as much. He takes forever and soemtimes has to masturbate to cum. Wth?
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Give the man some pain killers. They will keep him going longer. I'm not talking Advil either.
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i'm not trying to be harsh but maybe you need a reality check. sounds like he's just not turned on by you for what ever reason!!!! maybe he's just not in-love with you?? love doesn't get turned off!!!!! you can bet he's turned by someone!!!!!!!!!
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if my hubby smokes pot he can go for hours...i think he loses focus after a while lol!
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2^ I totally agree with you. The problem is then he needs to be honest so she can find someone who is turned on by her. It sucks to be played with!
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^mmmm....chocolate....
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Tell him to jack off a half hour before you do the nasty ... Works everytime.
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you need to have sex with him more often
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I deliberately last about 2 minutes tops with my woman and don't go down on her ever! I'm hoping one day she goes and finds someone else so I can be free again!!!!
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^1 Thats a secret of its own
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