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Can't figure out why I have no desire for sex with my fiance anymore. Gotten to the point where he no longer comes to bed most nights. How do I fix this?

Can't figure out why I have no desire for sex with my fiance anymore. Gotten to the point where he no longer comes to bed most nights. How do I fix this?

 
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The secret is ANAL SEX do it His but lol
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your bored with the sex that you were getting from him previously. that or you are uncomfortable with your body which makes you undesireable as well because of a lack of confidence. That, or you don't put out and he is wacking off on the couch. give him a blow job if you don't want to have sex. i bet he will probably start coming to bed then. Get a copy of the book ' nice couples do' if you are looking for ways to bring a bit of spice to the bedroom or at least to get things moving in the right direction. it will give both of you some ideas to try... good luck!
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wine, coffee, sugar, romantic situations and dimmed lights seem to work everytime for me. you gotta play people like a game, get them tipsy, then get them high on caffiene and sugar, get them laughing, then... get them to bed.
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Move the video game system into the bedroom.
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OP here, first comment-no, just no!2nd commentor-You could very well have hit the nail on the head with most of your comment. Thank you very much for the advice.3rd commentor-Might be something to give a shot atleast!4th commentor-Video game system is not the problem, I wish it were that simple.
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maybe you should be trying to figure out why instead of how to fix it. sounds like a major red flag waving.
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wow and your not even married yet--- you both need to go your separate ways
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try watching some mild porn movies, sexy shows on cable tv at nite worked for me!
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^Screw that! Go straight for the Donkey goes Ape for BDSM...it's a great flick. Fun the whole family!
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^LMAO
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DON'T GET MARRIED!!!!!
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Have sex with other men and see if it's any different. Then you will know if it's you or him.
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AGAIN, DON'T GET MARRIED!
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I have this problem with my husband. I love him very much and want to have a second baby, but I just don't want to have sex with him. he is very handsome, I don't know what to do either. This sucks
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^ you have become too routine in your sex.
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try a lot of Summers Eve.....or Massengill
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Try talking to HIM, not US...just sayin'
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wash those whiskers, Wilma.........
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Girl, tonight, when he is asleep on that couch....go out there very quietly and give him as awesome BJ....if he objects, go into an act of waking up, like you were sleepwalking, then get a lover !
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HAVE A 3SOME.2 GUYS AND YOU WATCH
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boyfriend? move on
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