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i have herpes simplex 1 and i dont know how to tell my boyfriend. we have been together more than 2 years and havent had an outbreak.

i have herpes simplex 1 and i dont know how to tell my boyfriend. we have been together more than 2 years and havent had an outbreak.

 
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Yell at him that he's been cheating then when he denies say you found out you can have it and not know it. Say he must have had it and not know it. You still love him and it will be ok. Something like that will work. Make sure you cry a lot.
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^That is sick!
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That's OK. He doesn't wash his dick after he screws your cat's ass either.
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You don't know how to tell him??? How about something like "hey I'm a liar and I've been deceitful from the beginning. I have herpes." See how that works out for ya.
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Your a piece of shit, you can't do that to people. Hope he dumps your diseased nasty ass.
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I thought there were laws against shit like this. If not, there should be!
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No, shes not a piece of shit, 25% of ALL people have the herpes virus, that means 25 people out of 100, and you idiots are the ones that make it so hard to be honest with loved ones. Get suppressive medication, take it faithfully and tell him its for fever blisters. Could be, could be not.
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^25% = 25 out of 100. hey thats 1 in 4 thanks for breaking that down for me!
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HSV1 is oral herpes. OP's freaking out over getting cold sores. WTF?!
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leave you valtrex out. he will figure it out
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^2 it is, i was wondering that too, if you ever had a cold sore, that is what shows up. duh.
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Lying POS. Hope you get cheated on and dumped. It's what you deserve.
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wow, people are soo mean on here, its funny how some people have to knock others down to pick themselves up
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It it's been 2 years, you may not have another flair up. Stay healthy, avoid stress, eat right, avoid alcohol, and you could go the rest of your life without a problem. Type one is not genital, but they have crossed over so much that even small children are getting type two. I wouldn't say anything, unless you get a cold sore,then just act like it's the first time. Many people are carriers and never have symptoms, but pass it on unknowingly.
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There is so much mis-information out there about HSV (Type I and Type II). You can have either type anywhere you have nerves, the most common location are around the mouth or on (around) the genitals. Condoms are virtually useless in preventing the spread since it is spread by skin to skin contact. Type I is *usually* contracted around the mouth and Type II is *usually* contracted around the genitals but not always. Once you have contracted 1 or the other it is very very unlikely you will ever contract the other type.
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So you haven't had a cold sore? WOW lucky you. You will I am sure he has the same type. No need to tell everyone you have hsv 1. Just don't kiss or do oral when you get a flair up. People are soo dumb.
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I know this is going to cause some nasty comments..but... I had a girl do this to me..didn't tell me at first. I was really pissed for a few days, broke up with her but ended up back together. The reality was she was missed diagnosed by an incompentent Doctor and never really had herpes....we got married over 2o years ago...almost lost the girls of my dreams over a stupid herpes missed diagnose. Get retested...if you have it tell him...if not just be happy.
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you can give it to him downstairs and then get it downstairs in return. You should have just been honest with him when you found out you had it.
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herpes is not an std. the victorian age moralists have you all bamboozled.
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^ I am sorry you are so unhappy.
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Wow, it'll be fun when you tell him. Hey, maybe you should tell him like it's some kinda joke.
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Herpes is just a damn rash. Get over it. 95% of people have it orally. So stop kissing, stop loving, put yourself in saran wrap. It won't kill you and your body gets used to it. I got it in college. Haven't had a problem since. Your man probably has it already.
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I guess he'll find out soon enough. dirty pig!
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You can spread the virus even when you aren't having an outbreak.
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i have herpes as well, believe me, its time to tell him. be honest. if he loves you, he will understand.. if he doesnt he will leave... and u will move on and find someone who understands.i know its hard, and it sucks and its not fair. but truly u have to be fair to him. u might have already given it to him since u can spread it without signs or outbreaks. good luck hun
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